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Thais Gibson on Attachment Wounds
If you struggle with relationships, maybe the barrier lies in your subconscious mind. In this episode of Woman Worriers, host Elizabeth Cush and her guest, Thais Gibson, talk about retraining the brain to achieve better relationships with the people in your life.
Show Notes:
If you’ve ever felt that you and your partner are each following a different rulebook, you might already have some insight into the challenges that different attachment styles bring to relationships. In this episode of the Woman Worriers podcast, host Elizabeth Cush, LCPC, of Progression Counseling in Annapolis, Md., welcomes Thais Gibson, MA, speaker, founder of The Personal Development School and author of Attachment Theory: A Guide to Strengthening the Relationships in Your Life. They talk about attachment wounds and attachment styles and how they affect our lives and relationships. They also discuss the role of the subconscious, how it often keeps us from achieving fulfilling relationships or reinforces unwanted behaviors, and how we can learn to reprogram the mind, heal our attachment wounds and find personal freedom.
Listen and learn:
Why we need to tap into the subconscious mind in order to create change and heal
What integrated attachment theory is and how it differs from traditional attachment theory
The rules we have for relating to others—and why others might be playing with a different rulebook
What shapes each of the four attachment styles and how they look in our relationships
Why our early experience of attachment has such a deep impact
The connection between attachment styles and core wounds—and why the subconscious is the key to healing them
Why affirmations alone aren’t enough to create transformation and how you can reprogram the subconscious for healing
What the person with an anxious-preoccupied attachment style needs in a relationship
Where the person with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style feels safest
Why persons with fearful-avoidant, or disorganized, attachment style are often the most traumatized—and the trait the often develop to deal with it
How the subconscious can sabotage you while trying to get your needs met
The subconscious beliefs underlying co-dependency
The five key components that make up an attachment style
The importance of identifying the beliefs we have related to our core wounds
The relationship between beliefs, thoughts, emotions and neurochemicals—and what it takes to change them
How to speak the language of the subconscious
Why individuals with insecure attachment styles don’t have relationships with themselves
The importance of understanding and expressing your own needs
Why you need to make sure your “need buckets” are full every day
How the negative and positive associations we form determine where we turn when our needs are not met
How to stop binge eating candy (or other go-to stress behaviors)
How to create healthier habits when the pandemic is keeping you separate from family, friends and community
Why digging into discomfort can provide useful feedback
How to learn your own attachment style
Learn More:
> Thais Gibson’s Personal Development School website
> Thais Gibson on Instagram
> The Personal Development School on YouTube
> Attachment Theory: A Guide to Strengthening the Relationships in Your Life by Thais Gibson
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